Hello Everyone! I know it has been a long while since I have blogged and I apologize. It just seems like there is never enough time in the day to do all the task that you want to accomplish and then when you look up days if not months have passed you by. You say oh I'll do it tomorrow and then tomorrow turns into next week and next week turns into next month and so on and so forth. Over the course of the last few months I have been super busy, trying to build my home based business and raise 3 toddlers all under the age of 3. As some of my followers who are also WAHM know that this can be a challenging task at times. The balancing act!
I have had a lot of time to reflect in the last few months even though I have been super busy. Had some ups and some downs but I still kept keeping on and we must do that. Sometimes I know we just want to have a Calgon take me away moment and just curl up in a ball and close ourselves off to the outside world. And if you have never been down that road the GOD bless you. When you are just caught up you just have to take a moment and pause and regroup. I have been home with my twins for the last 18 months and although I love them dearly I almost started to forget what the outside world was like. So I started taking them to different malls since it is so cold outside to the indoor playgrounds and let them run out all of that energy they have inside and I can get a chance to relax and meet some other mommies like me.
We mommies know we need some good girl friends that can relate to the struggles and the hardships that we go through and you also just need to get out and meet new people and network. Good girlfriends are hard to come by. I lost a very dear friend of mine last year and I just envy some of the other relationships I see around me because I am one of those people who am guarded and don't let a lot of people in but how many of us know that the word says "a man that has friends must show himself friendly." I am sure some of us have been down that road where some one says they are our friend and then you can't trust them, they let you down or they do something crazy or you have that one sided friendship where you are the one putting in all of the effort calling and catching up but how many of us know that any relationship is a two way street. They all have to be worked on and I guess it all depends on how much the other person or the parties involved treasure the relationship and friendship.
I might seem like I am all over the place in this edition but I have so much to talk about. I am not going to let it all out in this one. Trust me there will be some pretty exciting blogs coming. I just have to learn to jot things down when the ideas and the things I want to share start to come because we all know with our everyday grind we forget a lot. I had to learn these past few months that I am to Blessed to be Stressed. And you ladies out there are too. Our lives become routine where we take care of everybody else and that's all good but we MUST take some time out for ourselves.
One of the things that I am still learning to not take personally, are peoples actions. I've learned a long time ago that you have to learn to forgive, forget and move forward. Otherwise you give those people control over you. It takes to much energy to keep dwelling on something. When I started my business this is something I had to practice a lot of. People will try to keep you from accomplishing your goals, try to be dream stealers and killers or just no matter what, won't help you and support you in your endeavors and most of these are the people that are closet to you. I just don't understand it, but then when those same people are in need they forget and want you to come running to there aide. I know every one is not like this but it is a wide population of them out there. I never thought I would see the day when we as people don't want to support, uplift and encourage one another. It's just sad. I know there are some of you out there that can totally relate to what I am saying. If any of you ladies have a home based or other business out there please leave me you link or website and I will see what I can do to help to support your business. We all need each other. Like the song writer says I need you, you need me, we are all a part of Gods Body. Well until next time ladies. Be Blessed and be a Blessing! You can check me out at my link below!
www.5linx.net/TuckerTeam
